This Brutiful Life

My husband and I recently updated our end-of-life paperwork. We both strongly believe in not leaving a pile of shit for someone else to clean up when we pass away. We originally completed the legal paperwork in 2010 after experiencing the trauma of my father-in-law passing away suddenly and unexpectedly, but we needed to update Read more

Physical Health:I have experienced some new weird physical symptoms over the last few weeks. My main doctor and I have been in contact with each other to try to determine next steps. We both view these new symptoms as clues and more data. Emotional Health:The holiday PTO break wasn’t quite as much of a break Read more

Physical Health:We are still in Step 1 of the tentative treatment plan: Due to the fact that my physical symptoms have been increasing over the last few months, we are moving at a very slow pace. Sometimes, increasing symptoms mean that we are moving in the right direction, and sometimes increasing symptoms mean that we Read more

The world is a shitshow right now. It is heavy every single day with no break, so I made a list of some reminders in case you need them, too. 1) Cursing is rarely a symbol of low class. So, please, curse when needed right now. Or any other time for that matter. Cursing often Read more

I was watching a reality television show last week as a break from my own current reality (shitshow? 🤣), and the person in the reality television show was discussing being robbed at gunpoint. The person indicated that they were grateful that they were robbed at gunpoint, because it made them a better person. This made Read more